Why don't I want to talk to my girlfriend when she loves me a lot? I feel bored.
Just take some break from this relationship, I'm not saying to do the breakup but just give some spa...
Is there a stereotype that South Indians are physically strong and muscular compared to other regions of India?
South Indians are VERY STRONG, they have size thickness &mass. Pandit Hindu Punjabi Kashmiri types a...
How does someone start doing urban exploration?
Oh you just walk right in or break the lock, usually there’s a window or something open unless it wa...
Is homosexuality an excommunicable offense in Christianity?
No. I would start out by saying that there are definitively churches that say that it is and do prac...
What are some fun/kinky things to do with your partner?
Here is another list Try different sex positions - Read and go through the Kama Sutra. Mutual massag...
What methods do private investigators use to investigate someone in real life?
My late friend was a PI (Private Investigator) who worked for a Major Insurance Company. These Insur...
How does one succeed in life?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name): Procrastinates a lot. Can’t control his impul...
Whats the rule that makes "please" pronounced the same as "pleas"?
Please is an anglicization of the French word plaisir. Back in the day (circa 1300), it was written...
Why is dating so frustrating and difficult for a guy?
Hmm. This question was asked quite some time ago, but it just showed up on my feed. I see some answe...
Were Dalits prohibited from drinking water from wells in ancient times? Is there any evidence to support this claim?
Yes. Avarnas were generally prohibited from deinking or fetching water from common wells and ponds....
Im not transphobic/homophobic but, am I in the wrong for being uncomfortable when a trans person comes into the lockeroom? I just dont want them to stare at me while Im changing.
Not “in the wrong” because people can’t help how they feel, only how they act on it. But a little ir...
I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?
Yes, this is relatable. I realized somewhat recently that I had been substituting my need for emotio...